Well, I was fortunate in that God allowed me to miscarry naturally, and I didn't have to deal with abortion like my doctors wanted...sorry you had to go through that when you were young, and I'm glad you kept your baby. My 18 y/o niece is in the same situation, but fortunately my brother and his wife are decent people and are supporting her the best way they can...
{{{{{Hugs}}}} to you because obviously you still have issues with this. I'm sorry the sperm donor (he WASN'T the father)
was such a jerk to you. He'll have to stand before God someday to account for that. :*(