I'm not asking for opinions on whether I should medicate my son or not but thanks anyways.
I have heard just the opposite of stories like yours and some on your side as well. I believe whatever I choose it will be the right decision for my son.
I've been around here a while and am very conservative. I myself have grown up with dyslexia, hyperactivity, auditory issues, dysgraphia, and all sorts of other problems, including depression. And I was never medicated. I feel whatever I decide I think I know enough based on my experiences what is best and what is not.
It is a tough decision and has been on my mind over a year now so it isn't something I have taken lightly. Like I said though, he isn't on meds now and I'm not sure if he will be ever. I'm patient and doing what I can for my son and know if i choose meds for him it is right and if I don't than that is right. No one can tell me if I choose something for my son if it is wrong or not. Everyone situations are different.
Well, sorry I said anything.