[BykrBayb]

Knowing the pain that accompanies losing a child, when you've done everything you possibly could for that child, can you imagine the pain of knowing you had killed your child? I would want to save any parent from that unbearable pain. I would want to keep them from being taken advantage of during such a difficult time. Once it's done, there's no turning back.

[Small-L]

I would want to save any parent from that unbearable pain. I would want to keep them from being taken advantage of during such a difficult time.

Or do you want to increase their guilt and shame when they make a decision other than the one you would make for them?