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America's model housewife turns feminist as husband abandons her
Guardian Unlimited ^ | January 8, 2006 | Paul Harris

Posted on 01/08/2006 2:24:03 PM PST by Lorianne

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To: Publius6961

I guess raising and educating the future generation is not a very valuable pursuit. Unfortunately, economics suggest you are wrong. The housewife is an impact on not only her children's future productivity, but her husbands earnings. Our society will only impoverish itself if it discourages future productivity.


121 posted on 01/08/2006 6:10:29 PM PST by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: Alouette

The sad thing is she is now taking the side of the group that put her in this position. Any rational law would recognize the situation and ensure the husband supported her for the rest of her life.


122 posted on 01/08/2006 6:13:25 PM PST by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: paulat

I doubt it- I know many companies thaty force people to retire at 65. It's different for everyone.


124 posted on 01/08/2006 6:14:46 PM PST by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: Al Simmons

Not true. I've seen plenty of cases were the wife gets next to nothing because of no-fault laws.


125 posted on 01/08/2006 6:15:42 PM PST by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: flashbunny
ah, so she wants the rest of the world to base their behavior on her personal bitterness.

I think we'd all be surprised how often personal tragedy (like in this example) or personal failure fuels a total political worldview.

127 posted on 01/08/2006 6:17:04 PM PST by Zack Nguyen
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To: born in the Bronx
If she did the unglamorous job of running things on the home front so that her husband could spend more time at his job, hasn't she also earned the right to some of his retirement funds?

And if, if fact, the court doesn't provide for ample alimony, then she's right in that young women would be wise to keep up with their careers, and not chuck it all to raise the kids.

128 posted on 01/08/2006 6:17:39 PM PST by Wolfie
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To: nickcarraway; Motherbear

How many companies will hire a 67 year old (other than Walmart)?

How many people can just pick themselves up and start a successful business at 67 years old?

She did once write a book and get it published. So she can't be completely like "you want fries with that"

I'd like to know how many of the FReepers who like to say "get a job, you lazy idiot!" on these threads would actually offer to help out another unemployed, fiftysomething FReeper?


130 posted on 01/08/2006 6:22:23 PM PST by Alouette (Neocon Zionist Media Operative)
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To: Lorianne

That poor lady. If more of us acted like men should there would be no feminism.


131 posted on 01/08/2006 6:23:19 PM PST by Tribune7
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To: Rytwyng

Lawyers usually won't let the party cite divorce anymore.


132 posted on 01/08/2006 6:24:06 PM PST by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: Rytwyng

Lawyers usually won't let the party cite adultery anymore.


133 posted on 01/08/2006 6:24:16 PM PST by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: GatorGirl
I'm not sure what the solution is.

The first step is a massive change in presumptions in that gender roles are not interchangable.

134 posted on 01/08/2006 6:26:22 PM PST by Tribune7
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To: Alouette

She shouldn't have to get a job. After being married for 40 years she should get at least half of her husband's assets and conitued earnings, since he ended the marriage.


135 posted on 01/08/2006 6:28:01 PM PST by nickcarraway (I'm Only Alive, Because a Judge Hasn't Ruled I Should Die...)
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To: Lorianne

Interesting. No feminist here but raising my three daughters toward professional careers. I want marriage, kids, the works for them but never want them to be dependent upon their husbands for existence.


136 posted on 01/08/2006 6:30:30 PM PST by daybreakcoming (May God bless those who enter the valley of the shadow of death so that we may see the light of day.)
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To: Lorianne

I've always been of the position that it's perfectly fine to know how to be a good wife and homemaker as long as a woman also has the skills, talents, knowledge and resources to provide for herself and her family if something horrible or unexpected happens to her husband or if her husband does something horrible to her.


137 posted on 01/08/2006 6:31:45 PM PST by hispanarepublicana (Chuck Cooperstein is a tool.)
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To: Nea Wood

Excellent post.


139 posted on 01/08/2006 6:33:17 PM PST by CheneyChick
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To: nickcarraway

I agree ... only they are not HIS assets, they are THEIR assets.


140 posted on 01/08/2006 6:43:43 PM PST by Lorianne
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