That's fair, Alice. I hope you won't think wrong of me for claiming that I do know the answer. You may not agree with it, but I'm pretty sure about this one.
Be well.
You may very well be right. I've been thinking about this for years and deep down, I seem to have come to the same conclusion, as ugly as it is. When dealing with irrational people, I guess we can't be rational.
Take care!