No, my answer is that I don't agree to having my time wasted by people who can't even follow a logical argument and expect me to do all the work for them to locate artciles to back up their points.
I spent the better part of an hour searching for anything related to James Dobson being "stopped from speaking" at the University of Michigan. If this is such a well known incident, why can't you provide a link to it or even give the date? Because it never happened? So far you have provided zero evidence that Christians are selectively prevented from speaking at public colleges. By the way, Dr. Dobson does not even represent a church, so it's not clear why "church and state" issues should prevent his speaking.
Similarly, if you find an official document or press release or a quote from a named person representing the ACLU that they sued the school district only because of what people were "hoping", then I will take the time to post the news article about the graduation that describes what really happened as well as finding the quotes from the School Board President.
Yes, I think that when an RA is dealing with the students under their care, their right to privacy is limited. I don't want an RA telling my kid what to think about anything.. If you were consistent, I'm sure you would back the right of a Muslim RA to invite his students to study the Koran in his room.
BTW, have you ever actually been in a college dormitory and seen where RA's live and what they do?