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To: Nomorjer Kinov
Doing good makes the benefactor feel better, not the person being helped, he said. When the person on the receiving end can't repay the kindness and feels compelled to feel appreciative, he or she can become extremely frustrated. Acting out can occur.

In such a situation, saying "thank you" is payment enough.

66 posted on 11/29/2005 6:41:55 PM PST by Moonman62 (Federal creed: If it moves tax it. If it keeps moving regulate it. If it stops moving subsidize it)
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To: Moonman62

*** When the person on the receiving end can't repay the kindness and feels compelled to feel appreciative, he or she can become extremely frustrated. Acting out can occur.***

It never bothered my worthless brother-in-law (If you know him he probably owes you money). He even took his own mother to the cleaners several times promising to pay her back but never has.


90 posted on 11/29/2005 7:01:10 PM PST by Ruy Dias de Bivar
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