How can a psychologist who uses such language not be believed?
*** their response is not unnatural, he said. "Suppose that you were living your life," he said, "and all of a sudden God came down and destroyed your house? You'd probably be pissed."***
No, you wouldn't. You might feel sick for a while but you get over it.
After we were flooded out in Tulsa Ok. way back in 1976 we got 3 month's free rent (no free utilities though). By the end of the three months I had managed to get everything sorted out so we got along alright on our own after that.
Anyone who can't get their lives restarted after 3 months are just leeches looking for a free handout.