***Does it command you to harvest the grain for them and bake the bread for them? ***
This reminds me of what happened to my wife's neice years ago. She and her father raised a big garden and canned lots of food for themselves. When done, they called their relations giving them free gleanings from the garden. The relations were glad to get it---until they found it wasn't picked or canned. They then turned the offer down.
And you got to know the character of those relatives.