[Campion]

Yes, it does just happen and for many of the reasons you stated

Excuse me, but if it "just happens," then there aren't reasons.

but it also happens because a child is so smothered and so restricted that it is rebellion in its truest form.

Bovine scatology. If they're "smothered" and "restricted" they can't go anywhere and can't do anything. Trust me, I've forgotten more about being "smothered and restricted" than you're likely to know. It didn't kill me, and I certainly wasn't screwing around at 14 ... or 18 ... or 21. And I was married at 28 and am still married to the same lady, so it evidently didn't traumatize me permanently. You don't need to tell me about being "smothered and restricted".

[RunningWolf]

We all approach these charged issues from different places of life experience. What I say does not invalidate your's

Wolf

[SeaDragon]

Bovine scatology. If they're "smothered" and "restricted" they can't go anywhere and can't do anything. Trust me, I've forgotten more about being "smothered and restricted" than you're likely to know. It didn't kill me, and I certainly wasn't screwing around at 14 ... or 18 ... or 21. And I was married at 28 and am still married to the same lady, so it evidently didn't traumatize me permanently. You don't need to tell me about being "smothered and restricted".

Sounds like you are still carrying issues............. Led a sheltered life?? Smothered? Restricted?? Get a grip. Do you really think because you are restricted that you don't fight back on some level?

[chae]

My boyfriend's step-sister is pretty much smothered and restricted, and yet she still managed to have sex with her boyfriend once while her father was outside doing yardwork. She saw it as "being wild and rebellious".