I worked as a security officer and a server to earn some extra money while in college and even after. Working in either one of these jobs actually is a good thing aside from earning money. It is a good experience and helps you to become a good observer of people characteristics. I was in Arkansas most of my adulthood so, I never get a chance to serve those celebrities. Now living in LA, I might try to do it again. After reading all your comments, I am hoping I will get a chance to meet one of these "champions" for the poor. I will most probably say something that will make them feeling guilty,.. if any of this leftist has any guilt.. what with all the superior qualities they think they have inherited. Shame!
I don't think leftists feel any responsibility towards individuals, only "the masses." I don't give a hoot about the masses, but when I speak to a security guard, I always call him or her "Sir" or "Ma'am," just as I would for a military or police officer. Maybe it's not really comparable, but it sets a good example for the children.
I recall my husband and I were at a fancy fundraiser dinner a couple of years ago - when I was about the same stage of pregnancy I am now, 6-7 months - and I asked a middle-aged black female security guard how to get to the bathroom. "Excuse me, ma'am, but can you tell me which way to the ladies' room?" She gave me the directions and then said, "Sorry it's such a long way, honey ... when are you due? They shouldn't make this so hard on you!" (It was a stand-up cocktail and snacks thing.) I thanked her and said, "Well, at least I'm not working at this hour! You've been a big help!"
I tell my children that people like waiters, security guards and delivery drivers are doing a job that we don't want to do, and so they deserve extra-good manners, unless they're truly obnoxious.