[js1138]

To me it seems, in any case, that it has nothing to do with survival, but an appropriate fit to a more graceful life, something Darwinism rejects as a factor....

Darwin wrote an entire book on selection based on phyical appearance. Darwin was the first to notice that females were in charge of mate selection.

[Gumlegs]

Darwin was the first to notice that females were in charge of mate selection.

Maybe he was the first guy to notice ...