[It's me]

In the perfect world you speak of, no one would have sex outside of marriage. However, we know, humans are not perfect.

What an ignorant thing to say.

I'm certianly not perfect but I haven't had sex outside of marriage and I'm 45.

So, what are you saying, people can just not control themselves?

[wolfcreek]

And you and your spouse have never used contraception?