Ouch!
Former RA here and married to a former RA, and we don't consider ourselves losers.
As a matter of fact, if I hadn't been an RA there would be one less person on this earth right now. I saved a girl's life as an RA.
Bless you!
"I saved a girl's life as an RA."
Excellent job! I'm sure it happens a lot, at least with good RAs who are on good terms with the residents.