Of course, the whole high divorce rate is a scam. If you look at the number of people whom marry once and stay married, it is higher than 50%.
Those who marry and divorce and marry and divorce and marry and divorce skew the statistic
Lies, damned lies, and statistics
There are a lot of divorces whether you believe statistics or not. And most couples who divorce have children. I'm not sure what the answer is.
The actual divorce rate is about 33%. For people who marry over the age of 25, the rate is even lower. A well educated, serious Christian person who marries after 25 would likely have a very low chance of getting divorced.