[ShadowDancer]

Boler recalled being asked, not ordered

Having one's spouse in the military does not exempt one from being an idiot. She's an idiot.

[Dianna]

For me, this is the sentence that tells me the woman caused her own problems.

Boler recalled being asked, not ordered, to start back at her job Oct. 17, the day after her husband left.

The employer ASKED, but didn't ORDER? What kind of weasel-y crap is that?