The gossip rags talk about who is dating who, but do they really talk about whether people are having heterosexual sex or homosexual sex?
Let's just say this then:
Among the heterosexual people I know, we don't discuss anyone's sex life. Among the gay people I know, and I know quite a few, they talk constantly about whether someone is gay or not.
Your scenario regarding your gay friends kind of puts a lie to their protests that being gay isn't only about sex....
I seems like (I don't go out looking for news or stories about gays) wheneven I hear about gay people EVERYTHING is about sex...and I am not counting this stuff about getting "married"..
THAT, IMHO..is a radical left action, more than a gay action----