[peter the great]

I have a theory about where to look for a potential spouse how about Church. First of all you have something in common from the start meaning the faith. Which means should the two of you be practicing members of a given faith that will basically mean that the two of you will be on the same page from the start about a lot of things.

[Tax-chick]

There's a lot to be said for that, too. Still, I don't think any person is as truthfully self-revealing in a face-to-face context (especially one involving the opposite sex) as he or she is when functioning as an anonymous username.