Those are heroic thoughts, indeed. But unfortunately, what we are witnessing is not misbehavior of females who have been improperly raised and inadequately counselled.
What we have unleashed is all of the destructive traits of the female, which in fact are buried deeply within her genes, and which are the product of her evolution as the weaker sex in need of sustenance and protection. We cannot "unprogram" the female as she has been hot-wired for myopic destruction.
The only answer is to put the clamps back on before total destruction overwhelms us.
DA740
There is truth in what you say, but it isn't a truth Western society is prepared to face. So, as I said, for myself I prefer to focus on the individual and not worry about unsolvable problems like "the female" in the larger sense.
I think on that front, it's too late for the West.