Generally, I think that's the way it usually works.
Probably not - I let the friendships lapse because we moved, and I'm an unreliable correspondent. :D
Hitman:
You will notice chicks will lure you into this conversation over what men are supposed to be and within a short time, she'll have you so tangled up in knots you'll wish you were back drinking beer with the guys.
Best not discuss serious subjects with chicks, if you want to hold on to your sanity.
In conversation with chicks, the rule that always works is "keep it light and disingenous."
DA740