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The trouble with men
Spectator ^ | Issue: 15 October 2005 | Molly Watson

Posted on 10/13/2005 7:02:45 AM PDT by Eurotwit

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To: bmwcyle

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241 posted on 10/13/2005 4:54:25 PM PDT by Apple Blossom (Rush's home page girl)
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To: HitmanNY

Probably not - I let the friendships lapse because we moved, and I'm an unreliable correspondent. :D


242 posted on 10/13/2005 4:57:42 PM PDT by Amity
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To: sasafras

Men will follow..!?!

The men could also lead!

Funny, I actually think that's a responsibility God gave them. I have always held that the husband's job is harder; to run things in such a way as to still demonstrate that the other partner's job is valued and respected. This is a very important thing for our children to see, both the male and female children!


243 posted on 10/13/2005 5:03:16 PM PDT by Apple Blossom (Rush's home page girl)
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To: libstripper
It is infinitely better not to be married at all than to be married to a harpy.

Damn Straight!... Formerly married to nazi hellbeast.

244 posted on 10/13/2005 5:08:31 PM PDT by GreenOgre (mohammed is the false prophet of a false god.)
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To: HitmanNY

"The Game" is my favorite book of 2005 so far. I can't wait to see the movie version. Amazingly enough, though I thought Mystery would be trying to distance himself from Neil Strauss's portrayal of him, he actually has a link to "The Game" at Amazon.com on his web site! I guess there really is no such thing as bad publicity... ;)


245 posted on 10/13/2005 5:17:18 PM PDT by Mr. Jeeves (Speaking several languages is an asset; keeping your mouth shut in one is priceless.)
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To: apackof2
Gee can I still be a candidate for a FReeper match even if its too late for the chillin's?

You are not the only one in that situation. I myself am single too.

246 posted on 10/13/2005 7:29:38 PM PDT by Paul_Denton (Stom ta jora UN)
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To: GreenOgre
Formerly married to nazi hellbeast.

Just curious but you didn't see any red flags or was she so beautiful you didn't care?

247 posted on 10/13/2005 7:37:46 PM PDT by apackof2 (There's two theories to arguin' with a woman. Neither one works. Will Rogers)
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To: Fairview
She seems charming. She's also attractive in a dark, mysterious way. I like the fact that she chucked city living to go live in a cottage in the country with her sister. If she has trouble finding men she ought to come to the USA, she'd knock 'em dead with that accent of hers.

I agree.

248 posted on 10/13/2005 7:40:27 PM PDT by Paul_Denton (Stom ta jora UN)
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To: Fairview
"At the whim of the husband, he can walk off with some 25-year-old cutie pie and destroy everything the wife has worked for, too: home, happy family, financial security, etc."

Yup! I've seen it both ways. It's why I'm still single.

If I don't sense the DESIRE for loyalty that matches mine early on in the relationship, I drop 'em like a hot potato! My mom's old college roommate used to say: "If propinquity doesn't 'propink,' forget it!"

250 posted on 10/14/2005 12:55:33 AM PDT by nightdriver
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To: Mr. Jeeves

I can't believe that there is this much of a subculture as described in 'The Game.' I'm all for learning to get over on babes, but seems to me these men have other 'issues,' don't you think?


251 posted on 10/14/2005 10:08:08 AM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: HitmanNY

Hitman:

You will notice chicks will lure you into this conversation over what men are supposed to be and within a short time, she'll have you so tangled up in knots you'll wish you were back drinking beer with the guys.

Best not discuss serious subjects with chicks, if you want to hold on to your sanity.

In conversation with chicks, the rule that always works is "keep it light and disingenous."

DA740


252 posted on 10/14/2005 10:09:39 AM PDT by DA740
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To: DA740

You speak wisdom, DA740. Life as seen through the female prsim only casually (and often accidentally) reflects the real world.

I don't give this much mind. Women will never admit this, but they enjoy the benefit of a large institutional framework (movies, media, tv, talk shows, books, their freinds, casual aquaintences) that bascially validates their preferred worldview: their whims, wants, desires, emotions, etc are paramount, and men's whims. wants, desires, emotions etc are almost de facto too demanding & selfish, and are to be dismissed and derided routinely.

This is validated all day, every day, from a variety of sources. While it stinks, I don't lament it - it's just another tool a man can use to his advantage to get a good result when dealing with a woman.

Honestly, anybody with any clarity can see that once the male/female team is coupled, the woman on balance will exert more influence over the male (than the male will exert over the woman) on matters that I have raised. It's not a bad thing - once a man understands it, it's all good, really.

Just do what I do: weave an intricate web of lies to keep your woman in the dark, and this way everyone's happy! :-)


253 posted on 10/14/2005 10:17:36 AM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: HitmanNY

Yep. Your last sentence it particularly spot on.

DA740


254 posted on 10/14/2005 10:50:07 AM PDT by DA740
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To: DA740

Remember: anything that is said '1/2 joking' is also said '1/2 serious.' :-)


255 posted on 10/14/2005 10:52:15 AM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: HitmanNY

Right. One holds ever-fast to the "joking" side.

Because the serious side of any comment just renders her mad and "unyielding."

DA741


256 posted on 10/14/2005 10:55:47 AM PDT by DA740
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To: DA740

Yep.


257 posted on 10/14/2005 11:02:53 AM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: netmilsmom
a wedding toast you have to slap a liberal at the reception

Well that will be impossible since their won't be any there!

258 posted on 10/14/2005 3:15:25 PM PDT by apackof2 (There's two theories to arguin' with a woman. Neither one works. Will Rogers)
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To: apackof2

She was a changling hellbeast.....


259 posted on 10/18/2005 4:21:40 PM PDT by GreenOgre (mohammed is the false prophet of a false god.)
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