I'm sorry to say this was a long time ago and by the time she got here, it was already too late :( I would hate to be these parents with this situation. When you try to do things the legal way, you do get burned. You can say platitudes like 'oh it's the right to do,etc.etc.' but I know someone right now getting a green card and has to do pay $30,000 to get it (don't get me started on immigration lawyers!). I thought that once the INS switched over to Homeland Security, things would be better. Guess not!
I'm starting to think that the nation needs to have national referenda on these issues. It's obvious that the drones in Washington D.C. aren't going to squat about these very serious issues.