You're exactly right. Someone in authority doesn't need to demean his employees. For a starter these guys should be sent to anger management and learn how to act like a professional. IMO, if someone treated my daughter like that, he would deserve to be sued.
It really just has to do with character, not sex. If someone yells and screams, lunges -- THAT is inappropriate, period. But to make it a sex-discrimination crime elevates it to a 'more worthy' violation. Like a hate crime. 'Appropriate' is more appropriate if you're a woman.
I think this is so wrong.
The NEA is a bunch of whiney, cry-baby, power-hungry women. And too often the Principals are frightened of women and afraid to stand up to them. Bad combo.