More than a decade ago, I once had a very abusive FEMALE boss in the Hillary Clinton mode -- so should I have sued for sex discrimination?? Oh, no, I guess unless I cried at work it would not count.... ?? This is absurd.
Highly abusive a-holes should be regarded as unprofessional and fired, but sex/gender should not enter into the issue.
Are you a man? If so, were you frightened that she was going to beat you up?