Unfortunately, my former wife did not feel way, and traded my two sons and I in on an older, wealthier model. Apparently they had an affair for quite some time before they decided to destroy two families and four children.
That is just terrible. I will never, ever understand a woman giving up her children for a man. Never. I hope you and the boys are managing on your own. Sounds like you're a good dad and someone those boys can count on not to abandon them.