"Is there something going on in the heads of other guys that may not be going on in my head?"
Or woman for that matter. I was basically told I wasn't normal because I love my husband and because of that love for him I don't lust which means I'm abnormal. Huh? Is there something I ain't gettin' either?
Impossible standards and some people buy into them...I think it has to do with not being comfortable in their own skin.
While I am what Granny on Beverly Hillbillies would call a 'Birdwatcher,' when you connect with someone romantically and emotionally and love them, it's not abnormal to not be notably lustful for others.
A Big Mac can sometimes look real good, but when you have filet mignon at home, it's no big deal! That's what my galpal tells me to keep telling myself, anyway! ;-)