If your scenerio is correct, then I would agree. Reading the article I did not get that, but maybe you are correct.
Her picture shows a very plain Jane, not sure I would call her ugly. She has buck teeth which is sad, that will change your looks.
I seriously doubt they would pick someone if everyone around them said she was great the way she was, and really didn't need the surgery.
I think ABC was wrong to be exploiting her and I think it was cruel to change their mind at the last minute simply because it wasn't convenient for their schedule. However, I also think that the woman put her family on the spot - a spot I would have hated to be in. I believe that she needed them to say talk up how much she needed the surgery, in order to be chosen.