[SauronOfMordor]

If I had a dime for every time I listened to a female discussing the breakup of her last relationship and was telling her friends: "Well, we MIGHT be able to get back together someday, but he has to change."

Relationships are subject to a "dwindling spiral" phenomenon. Side A decides that Side B is not delivering what A wants, so A decides to withhold doing so much for B. B notices and retaliates by reducing what B delivers to A. Then both sides are increasingly unsatisfied until one or the other has had enough

[Utilizer]

Too true. But it still kills Me that it is always us males that 'have to change'. Just the incredible unconcious conceit of those females just KNOWING that there is NOTHING wrong with THEM becomes more and more hilarious to Me as the years go by, lol!