Victoria, your post 685 has some outstanding commentary and valid verses. Profoundly written by the author, thanks for the post.
One thing where I must differ vs. your interpretation (and this is probably just semantics) is that the man is indeed required by God to BE in charge to provide for and protect the woman.
The two are indeed equal but with different responsibilities, the man to lead gently (take charge) while the woman is to submit as unto Christ. And yet, the man and woman are to prefer one another, all believers are to treat others as better than themselves, honoring one another.
When you consider that once adopted into God's family by faith we are co-heirs with Christ, that doesn't mean we are earthworms, we are the apple of God's eye--and yet we can all exhibit meekness and humility.
"Whatsoever ye do unto the least of these, ye do it unto Me"
Amen.
Good point, thanks.