Girls may ask that....women don't
I have no idea where you got that concept, but that sadly is not the case. Females of all ages have asked Me that quesion, and after all they are all girls at heart and even address each other that way. One even told Me point blank when I mentioned that I worked as an Engineer in Silicon Valley; "Oh, so you could take REAL good care of me!". Such blatent mercenary attitudes are the main reason why I am still unattached to this day, lol, despite the offers. Other than (reportedly) Hollywood, I have never before in My life met so many women whose main goal was to separate a man from his monetary assets as I did working in that Valley, and although the majority of women I have met in the ensuing years are spread across a wider base than I was meeting in those days, sadly the instincts appear to be similar for the most part if not as all-encompassing as I previously witnessed.