Your girlfriend sounds like a keeper--a real angel.
Yes, she is quite a sweetheart. She does pretty good for herself with her photo and graphic design studio and designing some websites for some fairly well-known rock bands. Seems to have her head on her shoulders. Kids are grown up now so there is time for both of us, but we are not making any definite plans yet until we have spent more time getting to know each other, and this sudden illness has not helped there. We can survive on what I bring in, but she really seems to like the business she is in now and seems contented with the direction it is going. Plus, we never got into financial discussions from the outset. She is much more intuitive than I am although she does admit that I still surprise her from time to time, but she tells Me always that My mind is what most fascinates her, lol. I am merely taking things one day at a time for now, as I tire quite easily and the doctors insist that I do not exert Myself for some time yet.