I sympathize.
A year ago I was diagnosed with a class four brain tumor (half of us die within the first year, so I'm doing great). My wife has had to take a massive burden upon her own shoulders. She considers each day that I am alive a gift--that is true love.
Not you but what a bunch of arrogant pricks on this thread... to actually think I was interested in them... Give me a break!
If you or your wife needs anything... please freep mail me.
Prayers for your total healing