As a woman, I haven't known too many men who DON'T look for YOUNG boobs and butts in a woman, blonde, brunette or redhead.
I haven't known too many women who DON'T look for Johnny Paycheck, oops, I mean, security and maturity, in a man. Security and maturity, to a woman, means JOHNNY PAYCHECK....and they'll stick with that definition until the cows come home.
After a divorce or two, SOME men and women start looking for OTHER things.....sometimes. :o)
Or three of four. . .
Hun,
You are so right. OK, so mebby I have my fantasies,
but money ain't number one. ;) Now maturity means a working pacemaker and security is social.
And only STUPID men fall for it. They can live with their cats as far as I'm concerned.