We were at war with quite a few million Japanese, and my grandmother managed to be concerned about my grandfather without wanting the war to stop.
I don't think we are at war with one billion Muslims, but if we were, I would want my nephew to be doing the same thing he did in Iraq last year: Kill the enemy.
There is absolutely no contradiction in the position these people have taken, despite your childish derision of them. The contradiction is in your posts and it is a mirror image of the contradiction you accuse them of.
We're all supposed to be Cindy Sheehans, pi$$ing on our sons and daughters while they defend our freedoms, and pi$$ing on their graves to glorify the terrorists who killed them.