I missed nothing.
You obviously missed that my step-daughter and her six children flee everytime there is a major threat.
"We thought it would turn" is what one does to explain why they pour out old wine - not an excuse to sit in a house when catastrophe strikes.
I don't understand wny you're so prickly about this.
You give the impression that unless a person behaves the way you and your family do, they deserve no compassion. Sad.