You have no way of knowing that; you can't know what she was like before the divorce. I don't know if this has ever happened to you--if you've ever been abandoned by a spouse--but most people go through a period of depression, anger, and bitterness after a divorce they didn't want. I've met both men and women who were filled with fury after such an event--it's quite normal. Nobody comes through it all sweetness-and-light. I hope she can get over it.
She created her own mess. She deserves no slack. The only thing she deserves, from the looks of it, is to be alone for the rest of her life so she doesn't inflict herself on anyone else.
How compassionate you are.
"How compassionate you are."
Our life is what our thoughts make it.
She is choosing to be this way. She is reaping what she sowed.
And she is blaming other people for problems she caused.
She is a recipe for disaster. The worst thing that could happen is that she spreads her misery to someone else. She needs to learn to take responsibility for her own situation FIRST.