. Why don't they just make extra ones for them so if and when these mothers get their crosses, after they leave you put them back and if they complain, tell them we will not forget their loved ones and will remember them and will try to stop this war before other young men are remembered this way. Can the DUmmies say "court order"? I know they can if they try hard enough. You could get one in a federal court in Texas, most of them anyway, in a heartbeat.