[El Gato]

Rubenesque, fluffy, pleasingly plump, it's fat and those of us who are there should be realistic.

While being 10-30 pounds overweight might be distressing to your self image, it's not really that big a deal as long as you have none of the complications that coming with being truly obese.

And the dirty little secret (well not so secret) is that many guys prefer Rubenesque, fluffy, pleasingly plump women. (Well maybe not fluffy :) )

[netmilsmom]

>> And the dirty little secret (well not so secret) is that many guys prefer Rubenesque, fluffy, pleasingly plump women. (Well maybe not fluffy :)<<

Thank you!
My hubby actually prefers me chunky and alive than skinny and dead.
The last time I lost a large amount of weight, I was part of the Anorexia club in college Ballet. We lived on Slim Fast and coffee.
Now he is like the Food Police. "What did you eat today?"
God Love him!

[toldyou]

"And the dirty little secret (well not so secret) is that many guys prefer Rubenesque, fluffy, pleasingly plump women. (Well maybe not fluffy :) )"


Oh yea? I don't know who you're talking to, but go on a dating site and just see what guys want. The majority of guys, (datable, in my opinion), want slender, athletic and toned or average women. I don't care what age they are....18 or 80!