Sorry for your experience.
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
much churchianity and RELIGIOSITY presumes to replace
RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD these days.
A good church is hard to find and hard to maintain.
Especially when there is lack of humility and lack of truth at the top.
I hope you find a better place to worship.
Personally, I find better places to give my money to The Lord's work when I find the leadership arrogant and lacking in good horse sense.
The poster is Catholic. I trust you will behave youself.