[najida]

But there can and IS psychological damage. Boys are more immature emotionally that females to start with.

Even more so because, well "Hey bucko! You got some!" So he's even more isolated that if it was female (who could scream rape and get all kinds of sympathy) What has happened is someone in a 'parental' or authority role violated a trust, and crossed a boundary that shouldn't have been crossed.

Every male I've ever dealt with that had something like this happen, wishes it hadn't.

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That's what those males tell you, a female.

Trust me, among other males, that kid is LOVING it.