[joylyn]

I, too, have wondered why so many of these child abusing woman are attractive blondes. My guess is that they're used to relying on their looks to get by in life and have never really matured. They don't see themselves as grownups and behave flirtatiously, even with teenagers.

[beckysueb]

I, too, have wondered why so many of these child abusing woman are attractive blondes. My guess is that they're used to relying on their looks to get by in life and have never really matured. They don't see themselves as grownups and behave flirtatiously, even with teenagers.

I think you nailed it.

[summer]

Re your post #113. Maybe. I don't know.

[LauraleeBraswell]

I wouldn't use the word abuse. I'd say, "take advantage." She took advantage of this boy.

I have a 14 year old brother. Whenever his friends come over, they always pay me attention. They hang on to every word I say. They tell me I'm pretty. And I'm just flattered. It's just cute and sweet. But that's all. Cute and sweet. I'm 19. I'm not attracted to 13 and 14 year old boys because of just that. They are BOYS, not MEN.

She took advantage of him because he is a boy.

I agree with you. These women must have low self esteem.

[cpanter]

"My guess is that they're used to relying on their looks to get by in life and have never really matured. They don't see themselves as grownups and behave flirtatiously, even with teenagers."


Nail meet hammer. I think you are dead on right. She acted like a 13 yr old (from the accounts I've heard) when she was around him.