"Real father is man who rasies the children regardless of the genetics."
Amen. Dr. Seuss said it best in "Horton Hatches the Egg"
To quote him "and it should be like that, because Horton was faithful he sat and he sat..."
John Singleton illustrated it poignantly in "Boys in the Hood" - absent a father, a man has little direction.
I fear even on a "conservative web site" we are only voices in a wilderness.