Is that because it's really violent with gangs?
It was nice to see all the positive comments about San Diego-it realy is nicer, and more affordable (comparatively speaking) than other parts of the state...traffic is a pain in the ass, though. If you (designerchick) want to live a little further north, try Thousand Oaks. P.S. Don't forget to check out the Del Mar Fair if you move to SD.