Ask her if she's ever known a homosexual who has been satisfied with their life, or if they've ever demonstrated mental "imbalances" beforehand. I strongly believe that homosexuality is simply an indicator of larger psychological issues. Take my brother-in-law--he's a highly intelligent, educated guy who was very happy as a child, raised by two stable, loving parents, and the girls at school were all knocking each other over to get at him. Then one day, he comes out of the closet. Then, a few years later, he attempts suicide. He is severely bipolar (he claimed to suffer from PEST after the 2004 election...) and I believe that if he sought the proper treatment that he would find his homosexual desires fade away. Of course, that makes me a huge hate-monger, but what can ya do?
I agree with everything you posted. As a prosecutor, I saw many "openly" homosexuals in Court. Take away their loathesome sexual practices and look at them psychologically, and there was always some sort of underlying personality disorder there.
I sincerely believe they are miserable because deep down inside, they KNOW that what they are doing is wrong. Their response is to project their misery out on everyone else. If they can't make everyone around them practice their perversions, they subconsciously believe that the best they can do is make everyone around them as miserable as they are.