I would rather the US be rude to the greatest threat to civilization and freedom, more so than Osama's violent nuts in the long run, than to endure them as they amass enough power to challenge us. Rude? We need to cut off any military sales or technology sales that can be militarily applied to this megalomanical communist regime.
Time for Japan to arm itself with nukes. The Chicoms will behave differently with the threat of both Japan and the U.S.