----I agree that Mary the mother of Jesus, as opposed to the mother of God, since God always was and always will be, was a very special person. Im not sure what you mean by cavalier?----
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God = Three Persons (Father, Son + Holy Spirit) in One Nature (Divine)
Jesus = One Person (God the Son) with 2 Natures (both Human and Divine)
Mary = Mother of Jesus = Mother of A Divine Person (Son) = Mother of God
http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/15047a.htm#II"
Cheers!
Frank