I don't know why you are so surprised we agree. ;-)
I think there is a lot of bitterness as MaxMax says when injustices and unbalances exist in the divorce and legal system. He is justified to make those points IMO as a women. This does not help understanding between men and women on the issues of marriage. Men are emotive and not objective when discussing these issues as a result of the unfair treatment in court. AND I have to admit to the type of women that exploit those loopholes