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Feminism negatively affects women, too.
Many men now expect that a woman will work right through her children's early years. Women who want to stay home may not, because the feminists insist that she chase that elusive, amorphous 'ALL' that we're supposed to have. By the time they realize they don't want it all, the kids are too old to want her attentions, anyway, and hubby's probably been chased off; emotionally, if not physically.
Then there are the snide comments from 'professional' women about how they couldn't stand being coped up in the house all day stagnating, etc etc...
American feminism has become a curse.

So right you are. and then, these said women end up all alone, at the "end of the day", wondering "where did I go wrong?"

BUT-- I think this is a moot point. I think the "horse has already left the barn", as far as this argument goes. When you have so-called "Christian" and "conservative" women, marching RIGHT to the drum beat of the femilezis, I think we have pretty much reached the point of no-return.

Or: to put it another way, as I used to say in High-School: It is like a Nuclear reactor, in a meltdown event:: once the process goes so far, NOTHING will stop it-- and I feel that is where we are today. It would take a REVOLUTIONARY change, to return things to the way things should be-- and VERY few MEN or WOMEN, would be willing to do the things to effect this positive return to morality(as in: give up fooling around, shacking up, porn, the "me" attitude, AND a return to God in their lives, and in the throes of society,and all that entails, and so on)

Feminism negatively affects women, too.

Feminism was the ultimate swerve. When women began misunderstanding the dynamics between the sexes, enough of them began giving guys what we wanted all along - shallow physical relationships that were short to medium term, easy to get into and out of, and on top of it all we didn't have to go through hoops of decorum in order to get access to sexy women's sexual goodies.

The logjam broke: the average guy can get and enjoy romantic companionship with attractive women without promising exclusivity, marriage, or even a basic standard of gentlemanly conduct. While many women still do insist upon a more traditional approach, they are competing with many many women who have just given up the store. For short term fun, that's a hard act to compete with.

As granny said, why buy the cow when the milk is free? I benefited from being raised by a Sicilian mother and grandmother, which means that while I was raised with good morals, I was also taught to not be a fool: if a hot girl wants a piece, don't just stand there, give it to her.

Can't fault that, really. ;-)