[AmishDude]

Most I know try to please the woman they are with

And that is why they fail. Women don't want a giving, compliant, docile man who satisfies their needs and cares about their feelings. Women want to feel needed, they don't want a man who is needy. The key to success is 100% cynicism. They smell weakness.

[chris1]

I am a pretty muscular bodybuilder type. I was losing my hair a bit in the front and shaved my head. I look pretty menacing right now, and my girlfriend hates it. She thinks I look like a tough bad dude. That's why I am keeping it!

[HitmanLV]

And that is why they fail. Women don't want a giving, compliant, docile man who satisfies their needs and cares about their feelings. Women want to feel needed, they don't want a man who is needy. The key to success is 100% cynicism. They smell weakness.

Women clearly won't be sexually excited by a man they fully domesticate. That's not to say that they don't want a man to help out - they certainly do. But they will only be sexually and emotionally fulfilled by a genuinely masculine man, and the damn truth is that many men think the way to a woman's heart is to be agreeable and shed themselves of their sexual instincts.

All that gets you is her 'volunteering' you to pick her up at the airport in the rain at 2am, while the guy she is sleeping with is at home, dry and warm. :-)