[Melas]

Maybe I'm just not understanding. What effiminite qualities are you seeing in these young boys?

[softwarecreator]

Sorry for the confusion, thought everyone knew what effeminate meant.  According to dictionary.com:

ef·fem·i·nate  ( P )  Pronunciation Key  (-fm-nt)
adj.
Having qualities or characteristics more often associated with women than men. Characterized by weakness and excessive refinement.